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Spring rolls or samosas?


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It just had to be me replying to this one Jane.
Lust to start with.....love if it lasts.

So lust is my first answer


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Jane.
These some kind of drug? Hope your not experimenting with dodgy substances!!! If you are though...save a bit for me to try...just in case it is any good.... Lol


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Hello Tiggher. Watch out for the scam mails. If in doubt, ask the regulars on here. Try starting a few threads on your chosen topics. We do have a laugh sometimes so welcome to the madhouse.


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Coleen looks very nice....even though I don't know her....howzat


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Think the Scots are overwhelming this thread......so one more point for the English here.... Hello everyone


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Too Late Gilly. Blasted her into another Universe last night but the car's still knackered. Any chance of a lift to the pub?


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A.I. (Artificial Intelligence) with Jude Law. Immensely sad futuristic film.


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My sister lives in Bath and its a nice place. Fairly sedate compared to other cities and really picturesque


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My boxers (2 pairs) a Nike T-shirt, a hand towell and socks......and these monkeys reside in Amarpurkashi Near Moradabad in Northern India. Anyone who happens to be passing that village could look out for any trendy looking well dressed monkeys leaping from roof to roof.
Thanks.



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Good one


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When I spent a few months in rural Northern India, the wild monkeys there used to nick my fekkin washing and try to steal my shopping....

....so yes, I would gleefully have thrown one at any passing helicopter.




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I gave up nearly five years ago and it was the single most important thing I have ever done.
My first few attempts were half hearted really and whatever angle I tried never seemed to work.
My final solution was to enroll with my local NHS quit smokng group. You sign up for it and attend one day a week with up to 20 others and you all actively encourage each other to make a start to pack up the fags. Each week you are given questionaires to answer, and you'll get random Carbon Monoxide tests to see that you are not having the odd sly ciggie. The group tutor will also give you various tips and aids which may assist you in your quest. One thing I tried was the drug "Zyban" which is a kind of a mild sedative designed to take the edge off of your jitters when things get tough. Overall though I think with the help of the group (possibly the Zyban) and self determination, I won through.

The first year is the difficult part as much will remind you to want to feed your habit, such as being in the pub, watching friends smoke etc etc. The actual nicotine addiction is a minor hurdle. When you smoke your last cigarette, virtually all traces of nicotine will disperse from your blood within 48 hours, and your lungs will start to clear. As each month passes your breathing will become less laboured. It's only the reminder of the pleasures of smoking that will get you started again. Prove to yourself that you are stronger than that.

I'm not a fan of micotine patches as they feed the short term addiction that is the first hurdle to cross. A Hypnotherapist friend of mine who specialises in smoking cessation (I didn't use him) said something amusing to me with regards to Nicotine patches:
"If you were an alcoholic you wouldn't cover yourself in alcohol patches in an effort to give up....would you?...you would seek guidance and councelling to give up your addiction".
The NHS quit smoking groups are the best cost effective way of giving up. (They are free). Of course, if you really don't want to.....you never will, and we know the consequences don't we. I watched a friend die of lung cancer. I know i'll never smoke again.

Hope this has been of some use to you

Steve


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The Way It Is


As the day unfolds and darkness falls
I look upon my time
In a world immersed in sadness
Of famine, war, and crime
The love I’ve lost and brushed aside
The fears I’ve overcome
The turbulence I’ve lived through
And the things I haven’t done
I often think of times gone by
And how it could have been
But I can’t move on with memories
And the future can’t be seen
I held a light that burned so bright
And stumbled on the way
Now the flame is just a flicker
As it lights another day
I’ve lived the way I’m destined
There is no turning back
And the wall that seemed so solid
Has now appeared to crack
Fragile is the life we live
And the things we have to face
The balance of our nature
That makes the human race
My thoughts unfold inside me
As I lay awake in bed
Not knowing what tomorrow brings
Is what I’ve come to dread.


STEPHEN LEE OSTROWSKI DECEMBER 2003

(written during treatment for cancer)


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Nobody..............



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wash


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Jacuzzi with powerful bubble jets......mmmm...bliss


Books
Fact or Fiction?


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The Way it is


As the day unfolds and darkness falls
I look upon my time
In a world immersed in sadness
Of famine, war, and crime
The love I’ve lost and brushed aside
The fears I’ve overcome
The turbulence I’ve lived through
And the things I haven’t done
I often think of times gone by
And how it could have been
But I can’t move on with memories
And the future can’t be seen
I held a light that burned so bright
And stumbled on the way
Now the flame is just a flicker
As it lights another day
I’ve lived the way I’m destined
There is no turning back
And the wall that seemed so solid
Has now appeared to crack
Fragile is the life we live
And the things we have to face
The balance of our nature
That makes the human race
My thoughts unfold inside me
As I lay awake in bed
Not knowing what tomorrow brings
Is what I’ve come to dread.


STEPHEN LEE OSTROWSKI DECEMBER 2003

(written during Cancer treatment)





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Arse


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