Well... where do you start, online is a very strange thing, iv had many a good convo for long periods and you think, its been this long so why not meet, this could be the one... you feel feelings you didnt think possible... yes lust but do you think that at the time? Then you meet, you either have'it' or you dont, i know i really need to get to know someone before i even meet them then its the same all over again when you meet them, just about finding your comfort zone (but then again thats just me) and if they can be assed sticking around long enough (which i suppose is a hard thing for most folk) but i suppose if the feelings mutual you'll make the effort. Personally iv not had a full blow thing with someone on the net... its came to the meeting up part then fell away after that... are you any different online than you are offline? Maybe, maybe not. What its really about is effort and if you can tallk that long online then finally meet... and the person is willing to get to know you then youve got a chance but how do you get that on both sides?
God the above is all over the place... but i know what im talking about! Basically both sides have got to make the effort and if it works it works and vice versa. But what im thinking it...when is it gonna work!! Its all a waiting game and sometimes you just wanna give up!
Tomorrow is another day though...
:)
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