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porsha69 Birmingham UK
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:21 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
I have met a person from off here, but never really resulted to much. Maybe cos I have kids, maybe cos I am actually very quiet in person, maybe cos I was not as intellectual. But for what ever reason, it did not work out!!

But now I have another person asking me out, but I am not to tell anyone from off CS about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so sorry if my looks dissatisfy anyone - I don't recall saying in my profile, I looked liked a friggin goddess!!

I am sorry if my intellect is not up to standard - I also don't recall saying I was an ancestor of Einstein!!!!!!!!!!

I am just me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


So why is it that I should stay 'hush' when someone is interested in me and wants to take me for lunch or dinner????

So............. Can anyone please tell me, please put me wise, what is wrong with me???? Why do I need to keep hush?? Do I really look like Quasimodo or something to be ashamed of???????

Any serious thoughts will be taken on board and given serious consideration!!

Thanks Porsh!!
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cajunfroggy Waco USA
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:23 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
Porsh we have never really talked or anything but form what i have seen you are who you are and thats all you can be and no not trying to hit on ya i think your beautiful
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porsha69 Birmingham UK
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:25 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
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Porsh we have never really talked or anything but form what i have seen you are who you are and thats all you can be and no not trying to hit on ya i think your beautiful
LOL Thank you. I would not think for one min you were hitting on me! lol

Thank you for your comment, but ...... Therse has to be more to it than just looks..... Why do I have to keep quiet??
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cjjr79
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:26 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
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I have met a person from off here, but never really resulted to much. Maybe cos I have kids, maybe cos I am actually very quiet in person, maybe cos I was not as intellectual. But for what ever reason, it did not work out!!

But now I have another person asking me out, but I am not to tell anyone from off CS about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so sorry if my looks dissatisfy anyone - I don't recall saying in my profile, I looked liked a friggin goddess!!

I am sorry if my intellect is not up to standard - I also don't recall saying I was an ancestor of Einstein!!!!!!!!!!

I am just me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


So why is it that I should stay 'hush' when someone is interested in me and wants to take me for lunch or dinner????

So............. Can anyone please tell me, please put me wise, what is wrong with me???? Why do I need to keep hush?? Do I really look like Quasimodo or something to be ashamed of???????

Any serious thoughts will be taken on board and given serious consideration!!

Thanks Porsh!!
you are not bad looking at all. as a matter of fact when i looked at your profile, i couldnt believe your age. i would of guesed late twentys early thirtys. also, your profile seems to me like you would make a person very happy some day. DONT EVER LET ANY ONE TELL YOU THAT YOU ARE NO GOOD, THAT YOU ARE BAD LOOKING. dont let people make you feel this way either. they are not worth it.comfort hug
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kentuckygirlge
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:26 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
cool well hey gf,u tell him wants be like that to get lost,asap,dont let the door hit him in the ass ,so great to see youhug hug
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twingles Edmonton, Alberta Canada
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:27 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
confused Wonder if this person that asked you out has something to hide... maybe he has seen others on here and is affraid of what they would say. Maybe to warn you off. dunno
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cajunfroggy Waco USA
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:28 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
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LOL Thank you. I would not think for one min you were hitting on me! lol

Thank you for your comment, but ...... Therse has to be more to it than just looks..... Why do I have to keep quiet??
ask him why you have to keep it hush

i think its ashamed he would keep you a secert afterall its only lucnch for now its like your gonna say your getting married right?
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twingles Edmonton, Alberta Canada
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:29 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
It's not healthy or right to pretend to be someone else for thier sake.... So be proud of who you are and toss those out of your life that think otherwise. I call them toxic personalities.
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porsha69 Birmingham UK
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:29 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
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Wonder if this person that asked you out has something to hide... maybe he has seen others on here and is affraid of what they would say. Maybe to warn you off.
WOW! I was truly not expecting compliments as I have recieved, I was mainly aasking people to tell me what was wrong with me, to put me wise!! If you know what I mean?? I was told not to tell a certain member in here he had asked me out, kentucky you know whom she is too!!
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TheProfessor Pandoras Box USA
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:30 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
They could plan to announce it in time, but as you know with all of the forum bs that flies.. any relationship that's brand new that gets mentioned generally goes down in a fiery hellstorm - the going rate as of late, anyway.

I also agree that he could be hiding something, and didn't want it discussed on those grounds - it's something that only -you- can weigh, and decide upon, all things the same.

My .02

Rich
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porsha69 Birmingham UK
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:32 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
Twingles, I have only just learnt how to be positive thinking about myself like you say, but this chap, as harmless as it may seem, has made me feel like I was right in the beginning, and I am worth less - Crap I know!! But some chaps can have that effect on you hey?? ;)
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cjjr79
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:32 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
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They could plan to announce it in time, but as you know with all of the forum bs that flies.. any relationship that's brand new that gets mentioned generally goes down in a fiery hellstorm - the going rate as of late, anyway.

I also agree that he could be hiding something, and didn't want it discussed on those grounds - it's something that only -you- can weigh, and decide upon, all things the same.

My .02

Rich
rich has a point. both of them. look at my thread "is she the one" and you will see what this guy might be affraid of.
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BigT333 Lewisburg, Ohio USA
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:34 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
I think you are beautiful and any man would be crazy not to want you. I hope you email me again. I miss you.kiss kiss kiss
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porsha69 Birmingham UK
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:35 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
I am sorry for writing this thread, I was just feeling confused and I suppose a bit sorry for myself!! What a mere!?? lol
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native_grl38 Belleville Canada
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:37 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
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I have met a person from off here, but never really resulted to much. Maybe cos I have kids, maybe cos I am actually very quiet in person, maybe cos I was not as intellectual. But for what ever reason, it did not work out!!

But now I have another person asking me out, but I am not to tell anyone from off CS about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so sorry if my looks dissatisfy anyone - I don't recall saying in my profile, I looked liked a friggin goddess!!

I am sorry if my intellect is not up to standard - I also don't recall saying I was an ancestor of Einstein!!!!!!!!!!

I am just me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


So why is it that I should stay 'hush' when someone is interested in me and wants to take me for lunch or dinner????

So............. Can anyone please tell me, please put me wise, what is wrong with me???? Why do I need to keep hush?? Do I really look like Quasimodo or something to be ashamed of???????

Any serious thoughts will be taken on board and given serious consideration!!

Thanks Porsh!!
Porsha...I think that you are simply beautiful and I have a feeling that this nothing to do with you personally, but rather more with keeping quiet because of the drama that can be created by some people here in the forums, when they find out 2 people are interested in each other!!!!!

Also for some reason there seems to be people that like to create havoc and attempt to cause trouble for others when they find out 2 people are happy with each other...I have no idea why and I will never undertand why people do this myself!!!!

The other reason could be...as so many times has happened in the past 2 people start out liking each other and then things don't work out and I suppose it can be a bit embarassing.....This could be a reason of his as well!!!!!!

So g/f I really believe it has nothing to do with you....But rather one or all of the above reasons...If I am wrong...then get rid of him because he doesn't deserve you!!!!!!!


hug comfort hug
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Ks_Plainsman Walker, Kansas USA
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:41 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
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They could plan to announce it in time, but as you know with all of the forum bs that flies.. any relationship that's brand new that gets mentioned generally goes down in a fiery hellstorm - the going rate as of late, anyway.

I also agree that he could be hiding something, and didn't want it discussed on those grounds - it's something that only -you- can weigh, and decide upon, all things the same.

My .02

Rich
I'd be inclined to agree with Rich's assessment. I think I'd be inclined myself to "keep a low profile" until I was sure something was going to work out. Or not. Maybe the best recourse would be to simply ask him? (If he's hiding something his answer is more likely to vague and evasive. If he simply wants to "give it a little time" I'd think he'd be more inclined to be straight up.)

Oh and I also agree with everyone else - You're certainly a pretty lady. One any man would be proud to have at his side.

Good luck to you!wine
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porsha69 Birmingham UK
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:42 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
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Porsha...I think that you are simply beautiful and I have a feeling that this nothing to do with you personally, but rather more with keeping quiet because of the drama that can be created by some people here in the forums, when they find out 2 people are interested in each other!!!!!

Also for some reason there seems to be people that like to create havoc and attempt to cause trouble for others when they find out 2 people are happy with each other...I have no idea why and I will never undertand why people do this myself!!!!

The other reason could be...as so many times has happened in the past 2 people start out liking each other and then things don't work out and I suppose it can be a bit embarassing.....This could be a reason of his as well!!!!!!

So g/f I really believe it has nothing to do with you....But rather one or all of the above reasons...If I am wrong...then get rid of him because he doesn't deserve you!!!!!!!


Thank you, that was very nice of you. I understand what you are saying.

But this is all taken place on the UK forums. I am not to tell a certain blond bomb shell - if you know who I mean???

I can't help that I don't look like her, but I used to think I was worth something for my own merit!! ??
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porsha69 Birmingham UK
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:48 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
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I'd be inclined to agree with Rich's assessment. I think I'd be inclined myself to "keep a low profile" until I was sure something was going to work out. Or not. Maybe the best recourse would be to simply ask him? (If he's hiding something his answer is more likely to vague and evasive. If he simply wants to "give it a little time" I'd think he'd be more inclined to be straight up.)

Oh and I also agree with everyone else - You're certainly a pretty lady. One any man would be proud to have at his side.

Good luck to you!
Thank you Ks Plainsman for your compliments.

This cahp in Question asked me out, but I was told adamantly not to tell a certain blonde bomb shell on the UK forums as to the fact that he had asked me out to lunch!

Is it cos he had asked her first?? That does not matter cosshe is meeting someone next week!

Or is it cos they are arranged to meet??????????
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Lionhearted1967 London, Ontario Canada
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:49 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
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I have met a person from off here, but never really resulted to much. Maybe cos I have kids, maybe cos I am actually very quiet in person, maybe cos I was not as intellectual. But for what ever reason, it did not work out!!

But now I have another person asking me out, but I am not to tell anyone from off CS about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so sorry if my looks dissatisfy anyone - I don't recall saying in my profile, I looked liked a friggin goddess!!

I am sorry if my intellect is not up to standard - I also don't recall saying I was an ancestor of Einstein!!!!!!!!!!

I am just me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


So why is it that I should stay 'hush' when someone is interested in me and wants to take me for lunch or dinner????

So............. Can anyone please tell me, please put me wise, what is wrong with me???? Why do I need to keep hush?? Do I really look like Quasimodo or something to be ashamed of???????

Any serious thoughts will be taken on board and given serious consideration!!

Thanks Porsh!!
I would say you have quite the complex going on...who ever taught you to think about yourself that way? Who says it has anything to do with you at all?

It may be that he is a private person and he would like to get to know you better before announcing it to the world...Nothing wrong with that.
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hos1971 Nova Scotia, Nova Scotia Canada
[top] Fri Oct 13, 2006 8:31 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????
porsha you are beautiful, funny , sweet and kind...

if they choose not to be with you , that is their problem , not yours.... they are doing you a favor because they are worthy of you anyway...


hugs
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